Not My Responsibility acordes

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   Do you know me?
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     Really know me?
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    You have opinions about my opinions
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About my music

About my clothes
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   About my body
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Some people hate what I wear

Some people praise it
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Some people use it to shame others

Some people use it to shame me
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But I feel you watching

Always
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And nothing I do goes unseen
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So while I feel your stares, your disapproval or your sigh of relief

If I lived by them, I'd never be able to move
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Would you like me to be smaller, weaker, softer, taller?
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Would you like me to be quiet?

Do my shoulders provoke you? Does my chest?
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Am I my stomach? My hips?

The body I was born with
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Is it not what you wanted?
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If I wear what is comfortable, I am not a woman
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If I shed the layers, I'm a slut
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Though you've never seen my body, you still judge it

And judge me for it

Why?
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   We make assumptions about people based on their size
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We decide who they are

We decide what they're worth
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If I wear more, if I wear less

Who decides what that makes me, what that means?
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Is my value based only on your perception?
                         
Or is your opinion of me not my responsibility?